Obituary

Ruth Lipsky Kreiter, 100 just 17 days shy of her 101st birthday. Every one of those 101 years was lived with enthusiasm and verve. Ruth was the elder of two children born to Ida and Harry Lipsky. She married Harry Kreiter, on August 25,1940. Harry preceded her in death on July 24, 2018. She and Harry were the parents of 3 children: Michael Kreiter (Sandy Glass), Sheryl Porter (Michael Porter), and Bari Kreiter (Reid Neuman) and she was a surrogate mother to many others. Ruth was an exceptional wife and mother. She cared deeply for her family and extended family. She always had words of encouragement, wisdom, and comfort. Although she loved her children, she adored her grandchildren Beth Kreiter, Sari Kreiter, Keith Kreiter (Julie Smoler), Lisa Reeves (Matthew), Amy Frieman (Brett), Zachary Elman (Jessica Whiting) and great-grandchildren Samuel, Jacob, and Abigail Reeves, Henry and Kate Frieman, Jori and Ryan Kreiter, Thomas and Jack Elman, all of whom, in her opinion were brilliant, talented, and gorgeous. She didn't hesitate to let anyone who would listen know about each of their accomplishments. Ruth was extremely close to her brother Ronald Lipsky (Harriet) who preceded her in death. She was also preceded in death by her brothers-in -law David (Rhoda Kreiter Levine), Abe (the late Beverly and Joan), Ned (the late Leila), and Herbert (Sharon). She is survived by her sister-in-law Sally Keene (the late William Keene). She is also survived by many devoted nieces and nephews and great nieces and nephews. The family wishes to thank Ruth's dear friend and caregiver Larisa (Laura) Viktorovna Yevgrafova for her companionship and care over the last eighteen months. Ruth had a long and joyful life. She will be greatly missed by those who loved her and were loved by her. In lieu of flowers, please make contributions to the Jewish Federation of Greater Chicago or Jewish Federation of Greater Kansas City. In person services will be private. For additional information, and a link to view the service online, visit Shalom Memorial Funeral Home, www.shalom2.com, 847-255-3520
Guest Book & Memories
December 5th, 2021
A sweet woman, matriarch and “bollabuster”. A treasure. She will be missed.
~Paula
~Friend of Bari and all the wonderful Kreiter’s and Keenes, Deerfield
December 5th, 2021
The Kreiters and the Chapliks. Lincolnwood's best memories and friendships. Ruthie and Harry and their beautiful family were loved by my Chaplik family. Ruthie made my mother laugh and smile. My mother will miss her so. The aging process is so painful to lose one's cherished friends and loved ones but it is also a blessing of timeless devotion.
Holding you all in our hearts.
Elynne Chaplik-Aleskow and the Ruby and Miriam Chaplik family
~Elynne Chaplik Aleskow
~Family friend, Chicago
December 3rd, 2021
Sheryl although I did not know your mother I always loved hearing the stories you told about her great spirit and her great will. I know you will miss her and I know that her memories will live with you forever . Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
~Jackie Kamin
~, OP Ks
December 2nd, 2021

My Aunt Ruthie is the cutest, kindest, and most genuine person that you would have the pleasure of knowing. She was always well dressed and looked so fashionable. Her immaculate dress was surpassed by her enormous heart and her love of her family and friends. She always greeted you with a smile and good cheer. She loved my Uncle Harry for more than three quarters of a century. They were an amazing couple. Aunt Ruth always had a piece of cake or candy ready for your enjoyment. My mother, Sharon, really loved my Aunt Ruth. The two of them became very close over the years. Although Aunt Ruth lived to be almost 101, missed it by that much, it was not enough. Her zest for life and the love that she showered on all who were close to her was truly infectious. Aunt Ruth shall endure in our hearts and minds forever. On behalf of my wife, Debbie; children, Joe and Michaela; and my mother, we send our deepest sympathies to the Harry and Ruthie Kreiter Clan. We share in your grief and sorrow. Love you, Sam David
~Sam Kreiter
~Nephew, Sarasota, Florida
December 2nd, 2021

Ruth Kreiter
~Upload
~, Arlington Heights
December 2nd, 2021

Ruth Kreiter
~Arlene Folsom
~, Arlington Heights
Yahrzeit
Yahrzeit Dates For Ruth Kreiter
Tradition directs us in the evening before the Yahrzeit dates listed below, the anniversary of our loved one's day of death, we are to kindle a candle in our homes as a reminder of their place in our hearts.
| Gregorian Date |
27th of Kislev 5783 | 12/21/2022 |
27th of Kislev 5784 | 12/10/2023 |
27th of Kislev 5785 | 12/28/2024 |
27th of Kislev 5786 | 12/17/2025 |
Click For Yahrzeit Blessings There is no formalized blessing for this moment, however one may choose to meditate on the influences that their loved one had on them and offer these short prayers in their memory.
Prayer on Lighting the Yahrzeit Candle
At this moment, I pause for thought in memory of my beloved ______________ I give thanks for the blessing of life, of companionship, and of memory. I kindle the Yahrzeit light in remembrance, sustained by words of faith, comforted by precious memories. As this light burns purely and clearly, so may the blessed memory of the goodness of my dear______________ illuminate my soul. May his/her soul be given life everlasting, and may his/her memory be a source of blessing to those who knew and loved him/her.
Additional Prayer
O God, I remember tonight the life of______________ As I light this candle to his/her memory, I put my trust in You and pray that his/her memory will serve as a blessing and source of inspiration to all people who knew and loved him/her.
May God remember the soul of Ruth Kreiter who has passed to eternal rest. O God, I pray that you will keep the soul of my dear______________ united with us in the bond of life. In his/her memory, guide me so that I will live righteously, fulfilling Your will and serving our people. May his/her soul rest in peace and be remembered as a blessing.
O God, as I remember, Ruth Kreiter I pray that I may emulate all that was good and righteous in his/her life. May his/her soul be given eternal life and his/her memory always remain a comfort and source of inspiration. A link has been broken in the chain that has bound us together, yet strong bonds of home and love hold us each to the other and we give thanks for the blessing of life, of companionship, and of memory.
While kindling the light.
Sustained by words of faith, comforted by precious memories, we kindle the light in remembrance. "The human spirit is the light of Adonai." (Proverbs 20:27). As this light is pure and clear, so may the blessed memory of ______________ illumine our souls.
Zich-ro-no (Zich-ro-na) li-ve-ra-cha.
His (her) memory is a blessing.