In Memorial

Alfred Douglas Goldstone

Date of Death: November 12th, 2021
8 Kislev 5782


Alfred Douglas Goldstone, 91, beloved husband of Lilo nee Heldenmuth for 54 years, loving father of Bruce (Jennifer) and Mark (Leslie); cherished Opa of Jake, Sara, Katie and Scott. Chapel service, Sunday 12:15 PM at Shalom Memorial Funeral Home, 1700 W. Rand Road, Arlington Heights. Interment Shalom Memorial Park. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the City of Hope. For information, including a link to view the service, shiva or to leave condolences: Shalom Memorial Funeral Home, or (847) 255-3520.

Service Information

Service : Sunday, November 14th at 12:15 pm
Service Location: Shalom Chapel Service -Shalom Memorial Funeral Home

Shalom Memorial Park
1700 W. Rand Road
Arlington Heights

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November 18th, 2021

I was very sad to hear Al had passed
Although we have not been in contact for some time ,memories
Are good of past to a wonderful gentleman
Great guy will be missed by many
Old friend Dan rosen

~Dan rosen
~Old friend, Ca

November 15th, 2021

Dear Lilo,
1966, Solvang, the quaint Danish village in the heart of CA.
You & Al, Vern & I spent a beautiful CA day wandering in and out of shops, tasting cheeses, drinking CA wines, sampling Danish cuisine and baked goods and enjoying each others company. We were young , carefree, and very was the beginning of us cementing life long relationships with our spouses. It was a magical time.
I have the photos that mark that day; my limited skills prevented me from downloading them
but I will mail them.
We are so saddened by Al's passing and we send our heartfelt condolences.

Hugs Rochelle & Vern

~vern & rochelle markowitz
~friends, Altoona, FL

November 14th, 2021


So sorry to hear about Al's death. My mom told us of his death yesterday when she called. I remember meeting with both of you when I would visit with my dad at work or when you would get together with them socially. Our wishes are with you at this time of loss.

~Marty and Bonnie Needleman
~Friend, Anaheim, Ca

November 14th, 2021

We were so happy to have spent time with Al &Lilo when they were in Florida for the winter.He will be missed.

~Ftiends, bayside ny

November 14th, 2021

Dear Lilo & Family
Michael & I send our deepest sympathy for your loss of your beloved husband, father &grandfather. Our thoughts are with you. Michael & Carol Erde

~Michael & Carol Erde
~Friends, Highland Park IL

November 14th, 2021

Dear Lilo,
We will always picture the four of us, you & Al, me & Vern, that beautiful day in Solvang.
We were all relatively young, smiling, laughing and so happy .......we were just discovering each other; our relationships were budding. It was the beginning. It was a magical day and time.
We regret that distance separated us and prevented us from spending more time together.
The few times we were able to meet; it was always fun and enjoyable.
Across the miles we send our heartfelt condolences.
Rochelle & Vern

~rochelle & vern markowitz
~friends, Altoona, Fl

November 14th, 2021

Dearest Lilo,
We are heartbroken by the passing of your beloved Al. We were captivated by his humor, optimism and funny jokes from the first day we met you both at the pool. We used to laugh that Frank and Al had so much in common, that they were the same person! It was as if we had always known the both of you. The two of you introduced us to some of the finest dining down here in Florida, and we cherish the memory of all those fun dinners together. Even the pandemic couldn't stop us from getting together for our weekly Facetime cocktail hours. Al was one of a kind and we miss him terribly. I like to think Al is telling his jokes up in heaven keeping all the angels in stiches. Frank and I are sending you our love at this difficult time, and Keeping you in our hearts.

Frank and Diane Mendez

~Diane and Frank Mendez
~Friends, Highland Beach

November 13th, 2021

My deepest sympathies go out to you at the loss of your husband and best friend, Al.

I didn't know him all that well, but I know you spent much of your time and were always together, even I can remember way back when I ran into you both at the Unemployment Office when we all were laid off from United Learning and trying to get some money. Needless to say even at the Unemployment office he was his usual self cracking or telling jokes. It was a constant with him and that's how I remember him.

Both you and Al shared a wonderful life and family together so my prayers do go out to all of you at this sad time.

Take care. Always, Carol 🙁

~Carol Passarella
~Co-worker of Lilo's at United Learning, Niles

November 13th, 2021

Lilo, You and your family have my deepest sympathy. Al was a really great guy, very personable.

~Terry catullo
~Friend, Niles, IL

November 13th, 2021

We are so sorry to hear of Al's death. It was a pleasure to have him as a friend. He was a true gentleman in every way. We enjoyed the many dinners we had together, especially our first Seder. He made us feel very welcomed.
We will miss his many jokes.
Our deepest sympathy to you Lilo and the family.
Claire and Gary

~Gary & Claire
~Friends, Westwood, Ma.

November 13th, 2021

Dear Lilo and Family,

Thinking of you at this time of sorrow. May memories comfort you and bring you peace.
You will be in my prayers and thoughts.

~Celeste Stolz
~Friend, Niles


Yahrzeit Dates For Alfred Douglas Goldstone

Tradition directs us in the evening before the Yahrzeit dates listed below, the anniversary of our loved one's day of death, we are to kindle a candle in our homes as a reminder of their place in our hearts.

Gregorian Date
8th of Kislev 578312/2/2022
8th of Kislev 578411/21/2023
8th of Kislev 578512/9/2024
8th of Kislev 578611/28/2025
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